Note to self... that I'll just put out there... :p

If you have something serious going on, keep it to yourself. You never know the reactions of those who are not remotely close to the something, which will inevitably just cause more stress and headaches instead of doing what most logical people will do and send their thoughts/prayers and maybe offer to make you food. I'm seriously *this* close to deleting myself off the internet and canceling my cell phone. Good grief.